Open challenge To Mr. Amir Khan-(if you had taken a drop of Honest Mothers Milk),
“Ask those women’s husbands who claim had faced domestic violence, are
their Husbands had not faced domestic violence?”
I had already challenged him the study he presented and lie to nation,
but he prefers to keep silence and hiding , if he had any honesty to
reply the simply question , that 50% women face physical violence by
their husbands ,how he can make such lie, without full read of
“National Health Survey Report” and scripted the show in the name of
Also surprise, he advocate the hate to each other by endorsing a wife
should “Slap” to husband and the same is not crime, it will be termed
as Self-defense, so tomorrow all women should kill the husbands as
self defense, which even any Hard core Male hater Feminist also do not
endorse that to stop violence , reverse violence to be Promoted.
As per the study the question is one sided with consideration whatever
the women said to be termed as true, are they born in raja Harish
Open challenge to: Mr. Amir Kahn, as per me you are the big liar, if
you do have answer, come out open and make study with both gender.
I ashamed for people like you who promote the hate speech in open
television, at least Rakhi swahant show was is far far better than you
at least she had guts to show the both partners real face to public.
Disclose the Study to whom they asked question and then ask the same
question to their husbands, then publish the truth.
We had already done the same and expose the 70% data earlier by UN was
false and fabricated. If they have at least 0.0001% honesty and
transparence, let make the study by engaging both partner Husbands and
wife and then show the result, all over the world all study shows the
violence is not a gender issue, women are as violent as men , but in
India the violence done by women termed as brave work and the crime
done by them got Scot free, result all the husbands killers very year
more than 56K as per crime bure data as moving freely in this country
and making such one sided , biased scripted view on nation TV and
promoting the hate speech and result more and more Domestic violence .
Make the law gender neutral then compare who get convicted more men or
women, then only some direction or solution can be think, otherwise,
the gender war and hate to each other they promoting is nothing but to
create more and more family disputes and create huge father less child
In India as per Crime Bure Report Every 9mins one Age old Mothers
Loosing their Married Son, but Mr. Amir Khan can’t see those mothers
pain or suffering and result they get abused every day as they can’t
give him Crs of ruppes for doing scripted show in the name of Satyam
Jayata, which reconfirms beyond reasonable drought , he had no Love ,
respect or any concern for those Mothers of India.
Now read the below : The real study :
India’s New “Domestic Violence Act” – A Study Report
One of the most pervasive myths of our society is that domestic
violence is something men do to women. Solid scientific research
reveals that domestic violence is something women do to men more
frequently than men do to women.
While it is true that men account for most violence outside the home,
women instigate most domestic violence and they injure men more
frequently and more severely.
The Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire,
under grants from the National Institute of Mental Health, recently
finished the last of three national studies on domestic violence. The
first two studies revealed results similar to the latest study. Anyone
who would like a copy of it may order it from the University of New
Hampshire (ask for Document V55). The data tape and documentation of
the 1975 and 1985 studies are available from the Interuniversity
Consortium For Political and Social Research at the University of
Michingan. Original data is also available on CD-ROM from
Sociometrics, Inc. in Palo Alto, CA.
The average results in the ‘severe assault’ category are reported below:
* Wives report they have been severely assaulted by husband 22 per 1000
* Wives report they have severely assaulted husband 59 per 1000
* Husbands report they have been severely assaulted by wives 32 per 1000
* Husbands report they have severely assaulted wives 18 per 1000
* Husbands & wives both report wife has been assaulted 20 per 1000
* Husbands & wives both report husband has been assaulted 44 per 1000
There are dozens of other studies that reveal similar findings. For instance:
Indian Husbands End thier life:It Was A Crime That I Was Born As Man ?
Crime Bure data,
In the Year 2005, the Crime Against Men, More than Twenty-two Lacks
sixty Four Thousands ( 92.88%) vs One Lack fifty-five thousands
against women( 6.38%)?
Comp. Sue Moto By Police(FIR Registered): 24,37,973/-
Crime Against Women : 1,55,553/-
Crime against Child : 17,975/-
Crime against Men : 22 ,64 , 445/-
In the Year 2005 the Crime Against Men, More than Twenty-two Lacks
sixty Four Thousands vs One Lack fifty-five thousands against women?
% Wise All India Crime Against Men, Woemn and Child as Under :
Crime Against Women : 6.38%
Crime Against Child : 0.73%
Crime Against Men : 92.88%
We wonder Whose life is in More Danger in India : Men or Women?
Crime Bure data 2005 : Married Men Sucide : 52k vs Married Women
Sucide 28K.Still there is no LAW to Protect Men why?
2006 Crime Bure Data : Married Men Sucide:55452 vs. Married Women Sucide:29869.
2007 Crime Bure Data : Married Men Sucide:57593 vs. Married Women Sucide:30064.
Will Our LAW Maker change the LAW 304B( dowry death) to 304C( Sowry
Death) and 498A ( harrasement to wife) to 498B ( Sowry harrasement by
Where Mr. Amir Khan gone wrong and hide the fact intentionally to fool
Dubious one sided National Family Health Survey 3 (NFHS- 3) – The
NFHS- 3 relied on the below strategies to tilt numbers in their favor.
a. Make evidence-free claims:- This is the most common way the truth
is distorted. Perhaps the most common example is, “Men are
overwhelmingly the perpetrators of domestic violence,” an assertion
routinely made without evidence or proof.
b. Use definitional ruses (increasing the Ambit of Domestic
Violence):- Some persons use studies on verbal disagreements and
arguments to claim the study results are indicative of physical
violence. In India Domestic Violence ambit has been expanded so wide
that it encompasses physical, mental, emotional, physiological
violence and data is gathered using all these factors consecutively a
man may be convicted of DV even he and his wife live in different
c. Collect information only on male-on-female violence:- This is a
commonly-employed strategy. For example, the World Health Organization
did an international survey on domestic violence, but neglected to
interview men or to inquire about female-initiated aggression.
NHFS-3 concluded that nearly 37 percent married women have experienced
some form of physical or sexual violence by their husband. However
NHFS-3 also strangely concluded that “only one percent of married
women have ever initiated violence against their husband”. This
strange conclusion was drawn without even asking even a single
question to the men to measure the DV on Men by Women.
d. Distort / Ignore / Alter data on female-perpetrated violence :-
This is done by framing questions in such a way where even if the
female answer to question is yes it looks like a offence committed by
Example:- The NHFS-3 asked Women the below Question:
Have you ever hit, slapped, kicked, or done anything else to
physically hurt your (last) Husband / partner at times when he was not
already beating or physically hurting you?
The biased and heads I win tails you lose type question itself depict
the extremely poor and dubious quality of the Domestic Violence
statistics/surveys that we have done so far and also clearly show how
there is a clear effort being made to increase the domestic violence
number by hook or crook.
Now What does Peer Reviewed Global Surveys Say about Domestic Violence ?
We would now request the members of the committee to go through
another Domestic Violence Study conducted by MA Strauss. The report is
not only completely unbiased but has done the survey for over 32
countries including India. We also have references of over 250
scholarly studies show women are at least as likely as men to engage
in partner aggression and that partner violence is often mutual.
The MA Strauss report :
The report in Page 261 quotes the prevalence of bi-directionality of
severe physical violence and has the numbers for 32 countries. The
numbers for India are as below.
11.9% of Indian couples face domestic violence (slap, shove, grab, throw etc)
Column A :- 15.3 % of times only the Male is violent
Column B :- 23.0% of times only the Female is violent
Column C :- 61.5% of times both are violent
The data for India shows that in 23% of the times the Female is
violent and 61.5% of the time both are violent. Then why have we
completely ignored the data in columns B and C and only cherry picked
the data in column A to frame laws? Is this not a flaw in the law
making process itself to cherry pick statistics and then frame laws?
Some more startling statistics extracted from NHFS-3 behind which Mr.
Amir Khan relying and intentionally hide the fact and fool the people
Let us go in some more detail in NHFS-3 survey.
1) For women between age 15 to 49, NHFS-3 concluded that:
Father does 4.4% of DV on Married women.
Mother does 8.9% of DV on Married women.
Mother-in-law does 1.9% of DV on women.
Father-in-law does 0.6% of DV on women.
Strangely, our Government and Media harasses the in-laws in draconian
gender biased laws like DV and considers the parents of woman as
saints. Why is this inherent bias in framing laws and media Trial?
GHRS is yet to handle even a single case where a married woman has
filed a DV case on her mother or father, which as per NHFS-3 are
actually the top DV types on married women. This issue should be
2) In Delhi, NHFS-3 states that for ever married women who have ever
experienced spousal violence for no education, less than 8 years
education, 8-9 years education and 10 years education complete and
above are 29.2, 25.0, 17.3 and 6.3% respectively. Logically extended
for married woman with education of graduation and above, DV must be
around, only 2% as per NHFS-3 survey.
GHRS who has extensive experience on handling DV cases in Delhi have
found that in almost all cases, the DV suit have been filed by a woman
who is either a graduate or above. Or in other words, the DV Law is
being used/misused by educated women, who as per the NHFS-3,
constitute of only around 2% of the population. DV. Thus a law which
was framed for the poor/uneducated woman is being misused by the
educated woman. This issue should be immediately addressed.
We, on behalf of Save Family Foundation, Delhi, write to you to
expeditiously amend the lopsided PWDVA which was passed on the basis
of assumption and biased view along with under tremendous pressure
from a small minority of vocal and radical Groups elements of our
country, who want that each and every home a litigation should start (
Promotion of Legal Terrorism) and a Huge money had been invested for
that purpose, which is evident from their huge cry that why only
approx.10000 Domestic Violence case filed in one year, it evident that
those groups work like a Business Group who had invested huge money
with the expectation the expected Profit and Business Turnover and
for that they are desperate to ensure that there should not be any
single home to be spared where Litigation not started.
Hence our sincere request to you to take immediate action, if we
really want a Happy Family life in India and our Future Child will not
spend their Child hood under Father Less Society:
• Replace the word “Husband and Wife” with “Spouse”.
• Replace the word “Men and Women” with “Person”.
• Government should make the provision for Shelter Home and other
facility to the victim of Domestic Violence, as an interim relief.
• Establish the Family Court without Lawyers and the Domestic Disputes
to be resolved in Family Court only.
• In case found the complainant had not come to file the case in Clean
Hand and misused the LAW along with Judiciary / administrative
authority, they should be punished and the fine amount should go to
Government as revenue.
• Duplication/ multiple maintenance case to be stopped. This is total
abuse of not only the natural Justice Systems and Duplication of LAW,
this is the main motivation for filling false and fabricated case to
extort the money from Husbands family.
• There should not be any direct Compensation to the Complainant, if
the offence proved beyond reasonable dought the offender should be
Punished or fined and in such fine amount should go to the Government
Revenue only. The same should be used for the well fare of real victim
of Domestic Violence as a collectively. There should not be any
difference or discrimination of Rich or poor people and different
facility. All should be treated as same standard.
• Those cases already 498A/Divorce/CRPC125 or any other cases had been
filed and couple are not staying together and their case already
pending in court , should not be allowed to file another DV case (
This is total Violation of Indian Constitution of article 20 , where a
accused can’t be punished twice for the same offence)
• WCD (Ministry of Women and Child Development) review
committees consist of all women committees with radical and extreme
views. We seek that representatives of NGO’s like Save Family
Foundation and their associates should be included in this committee.
This is to ensure that there is balance and sanity in the review of
• Service providers in DV (Domestic Violence) LAW should be
neutral persons and made accountable for their actions to ensure
justice for the greater good of society. Restricting service providers
to women’s group’s activists and organizations is like asking the wolf
to guard the sheep. These groups are not above temptation to
extortion, blackmail and corruption. Besides, who will monitor their
actions and penalize them for abuses? Judges and officials should be
neutral. They should be insulated from pressure and intimidation under
the garb of gender sensitization.
Let us view marital life from this viewpoint for marriage is not a bed
of roses but a domestic battlefield. Unless husband and wife bring
immense goodwill and sacrifice to bear upon their marital fortunes,
their situation is desperate. The DVA need to be replaced by some more
benign, sensible, gender-neutral legislation that may ensure women
their rightful, honorable place at home and abroad, at the same time
not forgetting the rights of men.”
We want a better Society for our Future Generation and Stop a Father
less Child Society, which in turn not only will increase the crime in
the society , it is evident from the various study that a father less
child had been victim of child abuse at least 10 times more than a
normal child. Gender Biased LAW should immediately to be made crime
based instead of any assumption that all women never lie and all the
men born as Criminal. “MEN/WOMEN” word to be replaced by word “PERSON”
and word wife/husband to be replaced with the word “SPOUSE”.